You're advise makes sense. I will give it to him without any reaction to it. That way it is sort of a quiet, non-confrontational acknowledgement of it. But, like you said, without the pressure. You really think he will feel guilty? My H also broke down and cried tears, saying exactly as your H did. It's like they have temporary lapses of "being human" during their MLC meltdown. I will take your advise on the trip and let it go at that. Thanks again!