WooHoo! sounds great! I think sex is very important in an M and it can get boring to both people so I say spice it up and have some fun with it--the looks on their faces is priceless! Some excellent advice you are giving Sportster. Keep working on your trust. It is great that you are able to go and leave him on Tday even though you are worried. I would certainly take him at his word about OW. He is with you after all. He made a mistake and he knows it and is taking responsibility. He must be a wonderful guy!