Destin Yeah your right I mean H did say he just isnt use to me being so affectionate because I wasnt so much so in the past. I talked to him today and I apologized for going a bit weird last night and said that it was fine he wasnt mad just a bit annoyed and I said yeah I know and I understand I even get annoyed with myself to sometimes. So baby steps baby steps. Him and some of his friends are going riding tomorrow on their dirt bikes (we went out yesterday riding and Im sore to boot too!) but a big step for him was he asked me if it was ok that this ride is a "guy thing" and I said yeah sure of course. Before he would have just told me he was going riding. Its good Im glad he needs to spend time with his friends again I mean we have been in each others pocket since last thursday and he has kept S3 this whole week with him so he deserves a day hehe. And it will give me a chance to start really cleaning the house and putting stuff together that is going into the garage sale next weekend. LostInFl LostInFl