Good news on the job! That's definitely got to help. If it's alright, I just want to raise a point on what you said about your H being "weirded out" with the affection. Aren't we (the LBS) suppose to be making positive changes, doing 180's? I'd say "weirded out" may not necessarily be a bad thing. Just my opinion. But, it does sound like things are definitely looking good for you both. Hang in there!