AMI I thought the same thing that my M could not be saved because H had moved in with OW. Dont assume that he is hagning out having "fun" I assumed the same exact thing and it turns out that H was telling people he was happy and he did believe it for about a week but the 2nd week he was up there he was completely miserable and missed "our" family and while he was feeling this way I was beating myself up thinking man he is having fun enjoying his new life blah blah so dont beat your self up over assumption after all you know what assume means. H and I are doing pretty good although yesterday I was having some esteem issues I had this really bad feeling that she had called or he had talked to her and I was on the verge of a panic attack. I told H how I was feeling and he said no she hadnt called and to be honest I hadnt thought once about her all day today until now. He showed me his phone with his recent calls list and she wasnt on it . He understands that Im going to have these feelings once in awhile and he said he will help me through them. I went to my C yesterday and she advised that H see a C on his own a few times before we have C together that way H can start to understand his individual problems before we start on the marital problems so H is going to call today and set up his appt. LostInFl
. He understands that Im going to have these feelings once in awhile and he said he will help me through them. I went to my C yesterday and she advised that H see a C on his own a few times before we have C together that way H can start to understand his individual problems before we start on the marital problems so H is going to call today and set up his appt.
