I am really genuinely happy for you and your H. However, I have come to believe that my M cannot be saved. I snooped (bad db'ing) and I found out that he has spoken to OW who lives in the state he is in. I also found out he has lost his job, so he is basically just hanging out in this other state and having fun. Its not business at all.
I am devastated. I began to not even mind hearing OW on his voicemail, I guess because they weren't significant. But the fact that he is now talking to OW #1 again has me on pins and needles.
Sorry to vent here, I am just devastated and crushed.
AMI
H-29
amIow(me)-30
son-8
married 8 yrs
"together" 10 yrs
