Yes, a C is indeed necessary. Have you had any luck finding one that practices DB techniques or similar? I am trying to find one in my area, just in case my H decides to want our M to work. I am trying to keep up my PMA, but today I just feel so doubtful.

Your sitch however has definately lifted my spirits.

H-29 amIow(me)-30 son-8 married 8 yrs "together" 10 yrs