I have lost my soulmate to OW

[AMiTHEOW]

Yes, the rose colored glasses are beginning to come off. I also think that they begin to do a lot of comparing when they are TOTALLY faced with the OW, and although the OW may have qualities they "like"...they don't share the history as we have with our H's.

On the other hand LIF, please proceed slowly. As I told you, this is not my first time in this sitch with my H. I don't want to take away your joy, however I believe I must tell you to be cautious. You must become a better person (for you), which will cause better dynamics within your marriage, which will lead you to have a better marriage. Am I making sense?

Anwyay, YAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY

AMI