AMI My H actually told me once that he had low self esteem for himself especially after we split up he never told me that before. He was mad at himself for not graduating H/S gaining weight, and feeling like he hasnt accomplished anything. I know he put weight on through the years but honestly I never really noticed I was always very attracted to him. And I always tried to tell him I would support him if he wanted to get his GED but he always put it off. And not accomplishing anything he has accomplished so much in his life especially with where he came from he even put an addition on our home all on his own!!! But he still feels worthless to himself and he has told me that I dont deserve him that I deserve more then he could ever give me and I told him that he gave me the life I always dreamed of having I couldnt have asked for more. Anyways these are things that he is dealing with now and unfortunatly he has to live with OW to deal with them but hopefully and praying that he will soon realize that OW isnt all she's cracked up to be and that his heart leads him back home to his family LostInFl
