AMI and LR04,
Thanks you guys for the (((((((()))))))'s

AMI-Wow my sitch IS very similar to the 1st seperation you and your H went through! Its amazing how our H's fall in love so quickly when someone new gives them a little bit of attention when the H's are so unhappy with themselves and they think that having someone new will fix it. Its amazing how they "makeup" things to justify what they are doing you know. And my H told me as well that he doesnt ever see us getting back together again that he sees his future with OW well now he has been living with her for 2 weeks and he has yet to get a job up there hehe. He has alot of time to think all day while the OW is at work and he is job searching. And I hope your right that things can change quickly And also IF he did choose to be with us then darn right he is going to have to earn it back Im not going to just open up the door and say welcome home honey he has to prove not just to me but to our S3 as well! And that means counseling and dating me Because IF he does want to try and reconcile I NEVER want to go through this again!!! I couldnt bare it!!!!! I will check out your thread AMI!

LR04-
yes I constantly say to myself believe nothing you hear and half of what you see! When ever I hear things like from H's sister that H told her that he and OW are very happy and that his mind is made up completely about being with her. Of course he is going to say that! If he said no not really happy then that means he would have to admit that he may have made a mistake and made a bad decision. Also if he is so happy then why when I ask his sister did he sound happy she said I couldnt tell, if he is so happy then he should sound it to right! And I spoke with SIL yesterday and told her H called and she actually asked me did he sound happy to you and I said he almost sounded happy to get my call with a very upbeat hey but above that I dont know I really didnt talk to him. I will stop over at your thread as well LR04!
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