Just some journaling...
It took a week but H actually called tonight so talk to S3 although I have a feeling he wouldnt have if my other neighbor didnt call his cell # by accident (they werent home last night and wanted me to stop over with shayne in his costume) and she proceeded to tell H what his own son was for halloween. When I called him back I got a very upbeat Hey and I said hey back and then said hold on here is S3 and let them talk. S3 hung up the phone minutes later I never spoke to him.
Friday night I got a call from my gf who's x is really good friends with H (and me as well) and she proceeded to tell me that her x told her that my H said that we had been fighting alot and that I was always telling him to get out if he wanted to and that he was going out with his buddies and crashing at their houses when we were fighting and that a seperation was in the works. This is a all out LIE that sh*t never happened!! There was one time we got into a fight and he left to clear his head and ended up at my gf's x's house and thats it the only time! And I have never said to h to get out and leave if he wanted to! So I called this friend and asked him what reasons h gave him for leaving and he said what gf said and I told him man that crap never happened that the only time he spent the night somewhere else was when h went to his house and that no seperation was in the works that if it was then why have I lost 40lbs and cry every freakin day. He told me that he tried talking to him but h is going to do what he wants to do but that he (the friend) was routing for the "home" team (us) and I told him that I think the home team is going to loose this one and he said keep your head up things can change pretty quickly and said well H is telling everyone including H's family that he and OW are very happy and he said yeah for right now and he reiterated things can change quickly. Anyways that was how my weekend went Next weekend my parents are taking S3 and Im going to get out and also Sunday I have to attend this family divorce class that is mandatory in the state of Fl to be taken within 20 days of filing and then H has to take 20 days from the date he responds, to wich I dont even know if he has yet.
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