H called today wanted to talk some more about the D papers. I said that I wasnt trying to screw him and that I didnt say he wasnt giving me C/S and he said that his papers say he owes me C/S and I said well my papers say its retroed back to the S date and noting about him not paying anything. I reiterated that I didnt want this that the only reason I did it was because he was leaving the state and I didnt even know if I would ever see him again. He said of course your going to see me again (Yeah if OW "allows" it anyways) and I did ask him how did he feel when he got the D papers and he said scared. And of course stupid me said well its not final till the judge declares it as so and he said well since we are spending this $$ might as well do it no reason to waste the $$. And I told him how Im selling the house and possibly moving in with folks for awhile and he said Im sorry for that that you have to do that why cant you rent a place and told him I didnt think I could do it on my own financially. Again said how he didnt want to hurt me. So STUPID ME said you were everything to me and that I dont know what to do and he said, you need to live your life move on and then promptly well I just wanted to call and see how you were doing. Again he called at 3pm ok so OW is at work right? and of course he was calling me from his cell. Although he was with her daughter at "their" house. Anyways also talked to SIL on AOL and she tried to talk to him about us and she said he wont listen to her that he and OW are "very happy" and his mind is made up completely. OH yeah and he still has NO JOB!! and creditors are calling!! HAHAHAHAHA says if he doesnt have anything by the end of the week he is going to start scrounging (umm meaning min wage job hahaha) LostInFl
