Thanks ardislane Its so true they just think all they have to do is sign a sheet of paper and its done nothing to it right...WRONG! Everything that my lawyer put into the petition was standard procedure nothing above or below that. And no problem avoiding conv about D because that would require H to call to which he hasnt since his tiraid on Sunday, hes probably to busy looking for a job ehehe and you know what right now he deserves what ever he gets i.e. no job yet because he is the one who left a really good paying job here and left his family for some chick he has known for less then 5 months!! And your right he doesnt have my best interest at heart he thinks Im swimming in $$ but what he doesnt know is Im selling the house (he does know that) but that I may have to move in with my folks for awhile. And when he does find out maybe then he will realize the reprocusionts (sp?) of his choices! I told him a few weeks ago that my world has crashed down around me and he was like how you have the house you have shayne how has your world crashed, it took everything for me not to brow beat him!! That also shows how niave he is about what is going on right now all he believes to be the truth and reality is what comes out ot OW's mouth...man she is good!! Ok done venting!! 1st week down of H being gone for good today.
