The beginning of the end for them!!! When reality hits, it hits hard!!! Just wait til she tries to dictate when he sees S3 etc., He will get the picture, and even if he does not, he WILL realize that he has made a mistake. The question will be, can he find a way home...And that is where the DB comes in, b/c you will create a loving atmosphere, a safe haven, that he knows he can return to it/when the time comes.

For a while, OW will keep him mad about the D and expenses (money she will not be sharing, even when he does get a job). So expect some hostility. When the newness wears off, hopefully he will be able to think for himself. Hang in there... mem