ardislane, Man I hope your right!! I got a taste of her brainwashing today though. He called to discuss the D papers and said he wanted to know what was up with having to pay CS back dated to when we seperated he said he has been nice given me the $$ he has been giving me and I said I know that and that what he has been giving me would be reflected on the child support settlement. And he wanted to know what was up with having to pay my lawyer fees and I told him that was all standard procedure and he said I have no $$ I have no job I guess I will have to go to jail because I cant pay for that! And he said now I have to get a lawyer because I dont agree with somethings in the papers and he wanted to do this w/o having to get lawyers and I said that was impossible to do with a child involved and then he pulled the phone away and I heard him say "what was the other thing??" TO THE OTHER OW!!!! And then he said well Im not going to call and talk to you anymore I will only call when I want to talk to my son and thats it and I said thats what you should be doing calling for him and not me. And then he said what did you do get the most expensive lawyer in town and I said no and he goes well I will just have to get a bigger badder one then wont I!!! Of course that whole conv ruined my whole day!! I cant believe how he is letting HER control him this way and coach him like that!! You know what it sounded like that job interview he was banking on this past friday didnt pain out when he made the comment about not having a job. So you know what GOOD now he still has no job and no $$ so guess who has to cover it all till he gets one...The OW! And doesnt he realize that that is why he is there to begin with to help her with rent and stuff so I guess he wont be doing that right away and cant say thats not going to rub her the wrong way right!!!! I am so sick of crying and feeling so down all the time I just wish his world would crash down around him and he will wake up and have the damn lights come on on his head because him acting and treating me the way he did today (in front of her of course) is going to really start pissing me off!!! LostInFl
