LIF - It never seems fair does it? At any rate, sending him the letter was a good thing. I know when I sent/wrote my H letters, he seemed to "get it" better that during a "R" talk. Maybe it's because the pressure is off and it is non-threatening.

H's response is good. He will remember it even if he does not have it. He will remember it when reality starts to hit.

Don't think about H and OW tonight. Please, go out and do something with S3 and have fun tonight.

The short reply to "I got served" could mean ambivalent feelings. It's better than an e-mail saying "hallelujia, thank goodness, it's about time " right?

when do you know when to say "when"?