That is not necessarily bad...H will have a year to find out what REALITY is all about. He will miss his S3, and learn to realize that the grass is not always greener. How long does it take where you live for the D to be finalized? I would stall it if you still want H. I truly believe that this will allow him to "wake" up.
I am sorry this has been so painful for you. I know as you do how "discarded" and "used up" this feels. I truly don't understand why they don't just D us first, then find the "happiness". This is truly one of the most emotionally devastating experiences I can think of. Hang in there, and keep posting. I will try to keep up with you. - M
