H took S3 this past weekend and after he left our house he stopped at a friends house and spoke with friends mom. (Her and I have talked alot H doesnt know this) and he proceeded to tell her that I was adjusting well, that I was dating and that I was fine. She didnt say anything just agreed with him. She said he looked so sad and all she wanted to do was give him a hug but she refused to do that. Also told her that finacially its better for him to go to NC now since he is paying rent there and here so better to go now and since things arent going well at his work either here (which he is causing that of course) Told friend that he was taking S3 to party on Sat OW's brother something like that but OW didnt come down for it???? H is going to a family function of the OW without the OW? Does the OW not have any interest in meeting S3??? Oh and he also referred to the party is at the "in laws" so he is already perceving her family as the "in laws" man did that make me feel like sh*t!!! And the OW cant even file for her D until July '05 (NC law to be S for a year before filing D) and who knows how long theirs will take, there is a business involved there. LostInFl
