Well H dropped the bomb today when he dropped off S3 this afternoon, seems he isnt waiting till Jan to move to NC with OW, he is leaving this Thursday for good!!! And I didnt react the way I would have usually reacted with the crying and pleading and all that I simply looked at him and said well I wish you all the luck wish things would have worked out different and I hope you find what you are looking for and thats how I left it. Of course as soon as he left I cried and that was pretty much what I did for the remander of the day today. Im thinking god has he lost his mind! He is walking away not just from me but from our S3!! And for what?? I mean he has known her for 4 freakin months!! And I have been telling myself for the last few months that fine go move up there because the sooner you move up there the sooner you will realize your mistake. And here he is moving sooner and Im just loosing it when I should be rejoyicing it because now rather then waiting for the next 2 months. Man oh man what is wrong with these people!! And what I wouldnt give to talk to the OW's H you know. My H thought I was controlling boy does he have a rude awaking because it sounds to me that right now what ever OW tells H to do he does!!

LF