I have just read your thread and like the others our sitch's seem similiar, sucks doesn't it.
My H has left me and moved in with his OW who is plain, dull and has just left her H because she didn't want children. My H and I were trying for a baby!!!! Can you make sense of that 'cos I can't. My friends do not understand it. I know it doesn't matter what they look like but I thought personality would count. OW has no personality, how do I know this??? She knows me and my S10....bitch. She knew he was off limits so neither of them have any morals or respect.
If you get the chance look at my thread in Martial Problems - Feel like giving up.
