And ladies don't forget this as sweet and nice and lovely as she might seem to your husbands, and her family and friends she is out with a married man...something is wrong with a person that will do that,just plain WRONG! At least the spouse can trump up lame excuses about not being happy in the marriage but what is the homewreckers excuse?!?! he only OW or OM that I will forgive is the one that didn't know? (and they should stop once they know) Anyway I know we should not focus on the OW, but sometimes it is hard to stop. And we are trying not to hate our husbands because we want to continue to have a relationship with them. The OW is easy to hate...we don't ever plan to have a friendship or relationship with her!


Losing him does not matter, it is YOU who will be found and cherished. -Joy Luck Club