Lost,

It could very well be a MLC for your H too. Somewhere on Michele's home page or in the main index there is an article about the "anytime mid-life crisis." It says a person can even be in their early 20's and have one.

I wish my H's OW lived 400 instead of 30 miles away! I guess it doesn't matter really. What ever is going to happen is going to happen.

LR