yeah it does feel like we are IM'ing hehe Yeah very funny how the sitch are soo similiar although my H's OW didnt actually leave her H for about a month after her and H have been hooked up. My H thinks if he changes R's that he will be better off but what he doesnt realize...yet anyways...is that that R is more doomed to failure then Ours is but thats for him to find out, at least a good + is if they do break it off and my H wants to work it out at least she lives 400 miles away so it will be easier for him to break away from her then if they worked together or she lived in this town. I would just have to worry (well try not to anyways) about them seeing E/A when she came here to visit her mom. yeah this MLC thing is very interesting but with my H only being 28 could that be what he is going through already?? LF
