Hi Lost,

Another coincidence...my H in a rut and OW seperated already cuz of her unhappy marriage. The good thing is (depending on how you look at it), even these R's where they seem to have everything in common, are as "doomed" as any other extramarital affair. Doesn't that suck hearing about them being "spotted" together?! I feel like we're instant messaging. LOL! There is a lot to the MLC thing, I think. I'm going to try and get some books and read up on it.

LR