LR04 I hear ya about finding the pic. A friend of mine went to the wedding that H took OW to a few weeks ago and he didnt take any of H & OW so bummer on that although if I was to see a pic of her I would prefer it to be one of just her and not of her and H together. And about the age thing I guess Im in a different boat myself and H are both 28 and the OW is 34!!!! Whats up with this!! And I understand the "likes" that they are attracted to because here she is in a bad marriage and isnt happy and wants to be happy and here is my H (not in a bad marriage just in a rut) and he isnt happy at the moment so 2 people with "everything" in common finding comfort in each other. LF