It doesn't matter what the OW looks like. It's all about that they have the same anger, selfishness and sadness as the WAH. It's not about looks at all.
I've been reading M Go Blue's thread in Midlife Crisis and Calling All Former Walkaways. You will get some comfort if you read those threads. Unfortunately those problems fall under the "things I cannot change" category.
I'm not doing so well myself these days. Got a crumb yesterday and had an anonymous "run in" today. See my thread...I'm about to do something stupid if nobody convinces me otherwise.
It does seem like you're doing the best you can do and doing all the right things right now. PATIENCE!!!
