DITTO!!! Your sitch is very similar to mine also but mine is about 1 1/2 months further along. My H has said some of the almost exact same things as your H. My H is also leaving for OW with three kids that left her H because of "them." My Big Bomb happened 3 days before our 7th anniversary. Sick, isn't it? My H also left after knowing the skank for a very short time and maybe put a week's worth of thought into our 12 year relationship. My H has also been unhappy for at least a couple of years. He seems to be having a MLC also. I'm going to follow your thread. Please take a look at mine, maybe you can learn from some of the mistakes I have already made - LOL! Just do a search for lastresort04 in "separated" forum if you are interested. I have 2 or 3 longer ones going.
