I fully agree with what you are saying. I was just saying that many people I talk to say the one that does not want to be intimate will alot of times give that impression of wanting to get right to business and get it over with.
I personally would probably be happy with once a week, but would not turn down several times a week. If I was made to feel sexy and desired I would very well get intimate every night. I don't mean to make generalizations, was just something I have heard alot.