I have major amounts of guilt about my indesrcetion
What kind of indescretion are you talking about?
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We have been to C but with not much results. All of the C's we have been to blame everything on the W and I think we all know that is not the case. So when C goes on the attack with the W I get pissed and that sure doesn't help things. Don't get me wrong I do think there are some things the W could change but they are very few!!! I am the one with the LD not her and I do see how it effects her. The major problem is that I can't seem to make changes that stick to correct how I react.
In most cases there are two parties to blame. And maybe "blame" is not the correct word to use. Maybe you could find a solution based counselor instead of one that puts the blame on one person or the other? A counselor that can work with both of you to help you find a solution.
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I love my wife more than anything but it is hard for her to believe as my actions do not reflect what my words say. This is the major thing I am TRYING to work on.... making my actions reflect my words!!
I think we all want instant results. I don't think that is going to happen. You have to give yourselves time to work on this and correct it. Really, look into a counselor that you like, that can help the two of you. Good Luck.
