annette,
I have major amounts of guilt about my indesrcetion. I am not saying that the W and I don't ML it is just fairly rare that we do.

We have been to C but with not much results. All of the C's we have been to blame everything on the W and I think we all know that is not the case. So when C goes on the attack with the W I get pissed and that sure doesn't help things. Don't get me wrong I do think there are some things the W could change but they are very few!!! I am the one with the LD not her and I do see how it effects her. The major problem is that I can't seem to make changes that stick to correct how I react.

Things are getting to the point that I think that the W would be better off without me! Even though this is not what I want I am getting very tired of W going through the heartache and dissappoinment that she is.

I love my wife more than anything but it is hard for her to believe as my actions do not reflect what my words say. This is the major thing I am TRYING to work on.... making my actions reflect my words!!