annette,
The W rarely initiates anymore as she has been shot down so much in the past so even if I cuddled I doubt she would take it from there. I understand W's reasoning though.

My ED is purely mental on my part. I have been to the best doc's around and had test after test and they have not found anything medically wrong. I do have major guilt and I know it and getting over it is the majority of the problem IMO