Trying to work things out

[SolidMechanic]

I know the best thing I could have done was ask W if she still wanted to ML but I could not bring myself to as I was afraid I would have to take a shot to make things work as I was not really in the mood anymore.

Jesus, TL, If I had to stick a needle in my d**k to get an erection, I might not be "in the mood" either.

I don't know if I mentioned this in your other thread. Go get a book called "Rekindling Desire" by the McCarthys. It's a much easier read (less interesting though) than "Passionate Marriage". It is also more applied. Read closely about non-demand pleasuring. If you applied their suggestions, you might be able to get out of the ditch and back on the road.

SM