Hi H2H - Isn't it amazing that so many of us here have the same mode of operation?
Quote: Rushing around trying to make the 'next thing' perfect all but erased the moment I was in. And as long as I kept this up, it felt like that future never came bec. by the time it did I was beyond it, working on the 'next'.
This is so hard for me to turn around too. In fact, I posted on Sage and Pam's joint thread on self esteem - the compulsion for perfection, and attaching my self esteem to that goal, is an assumption that has defined so much of me, and shaped so many of my past decisions. Ugh.
