Hi Slowly! your observation about deadlines and patience is very helpful....and H2H's observation about setting deadlines being a way to ease the pain is exactly on target in my sitch.

helpful stuff here gals, thanks!

Boy, Slowly, do I know what you mean about doing the heavy lifting! Is your H predictble in his responses? Sometimes it seems mine changes so much from day to day, it's hard to know what to do.


been around awhile!