Hi Jen - Interesting question posed by your coach, and yes, I totally agree with your answer. Yet another interesting perspective. Today I feel like we are all walking wounded, healing slowly. There is just such a wealth of experience here, I am constantly thankful for having found you guys

Just journaling Thursday. Work-wise I got my scheduled tasks done, but it did take a lot of mental and emotional discipline to get there. I called NG at 9 in the morning, he was just having breakfast, and said he will call back later. Noon, got a call from the lawyer about a detail on our flat sale, called NG to confirm decision, said he was in meeting, and would call back. 3 pm texted him, before heading into a meeting of my own, and he texted right back, so I called, and guess what, he was free as a bird, what was that with not returning my 2 earlier calls? So I wrap up the lawyer discussion, and let him know I was going to indulge in some retail theraphy to lift me out of the blues. 730 he calls, I let it pass, I was having dinner with a friend. 8 pm he calls again, I answer, he just tells me he is out with a couple of colleagues (read no privacy) and that he will call back when he gets to his room.

Here we are, midnight, no call from NG. I really am not sure what to make of it. Why say he will call back and then not do so? He comes back Friday nite, and I'll be picking him up at the airport. I plan to dress well, and have a smile pinned on my face. But during Friday, I will not be calling or emailing him. Just tired of this one sided effort into our R.

Time for bed over here. Have a great evening, you guys. Slowly


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