Hi Sage and Ellie - I guess these are the building blocks of piecing, how we cope with predictable, but nevertheless difficult episodes. Since May, NG has been good about letting me know of upcoming trips, and even organising flight tickets for me. This time, all he said was I need to be gone for a week, and that was it. I guess I'm quite up to my eyes at work too, and perhaps did not respond sufficiently positively, dunno. Anyhow. he has been very sweet, setting up our mobile phones so we can chat often, exchange pictures, without it costing a bomb.
I may also be borrowing trouble a bit, as part of me is anxious the following week after he gets back, I have to go away for a couple of days. Now, what I'd really like is for him to come with me, and we can make a long weekend of it. I gotta work on this...
I'm ashamed to say I don't know how-to phone sex - ugh. Good idea, something else to learn
Also, his birthday is coming up mid Nov, don't know yet what I'll get him - any ideas folks?
