Hi Jen - I forgot to update the board - them numbers are all gone. as of the day I had my meltdown, perhaps just an hour later
Something else I'm learning, NG never, but never, backs down during a 'discussion' - but if my point is valid, he does then take the necessary action - quietly. I now don't labour my point. Mention it once, then move on. It used to be that I wanted closure during the same discussion, and we both end up taking positions we are loathe to back off from. Things are so much simpler now, no protracted arguments, no 'loss of face' - and we seem to be doing more of the right things....
Being a solution 'detective' takes time and the right frame of mind. The ways around issues are all there, just waiting for us to find them
