That is an excellent commentary and pertains whether we are starting a new relationship with the old H or a new relationship with someone else. I wonder how much of our bad dynamic came about because we never grew up from our teenaged selves in the R (I was 19 when I started with H). And my friends and C think my H is still acting like child in the emotional arena. Which leads me to wonder....do you feel like you and NG are not matched at the moment in the area of expectations and differentiation? Just a thought. And how to work with that if so.
