I prefer IC when I'm with someone else and MB when I'm by myself. There has never been a woman who could give me a HJ that got me off (and forget about a BJ 'cause I dislike those). I think it has to do with sensatory feedback and the whole process of "getting to orgasm" where no one else hits the same nerves that I do. IC by itself is not for the sensations... it's for the act itself (at least for me).
So, friction needs to be properly placed to have an effect. I don't know if pressure has any affect on me... unless you're talking about the pressure to finish so I can roll over and go to sleep.
I was worried that this morning he would be feeling guilty and be sorry that we did that, but he seems to be very upbeat and happy about the whole thing. At one time, guilt over being sexual ruled his life. I mean that quite literally, too. His idea of what our Church taught was very different than the actual teachings. It was more an amalgam of what he thought the 'rules' were plus his mothers voice in his head chiding him for any sign that he was a normal male human that was causing him to freak out and shun me.
I know that this will never become a regular part of our lives. I was serious when I said it might happen every 9 yrs. But I am glad that he let me in, last night.
HPchicken, Ooooh, Scaredy-cat! What's to be afraid of? Worst answer you can get is what you already have! Go ahead, I double dog dare you Then again, if you want to see how horny you and MrHP can get by waiting 4 weeks...
GGB, thinking nah, nah, betcha can't dooo it.
--hmm, must be the animal in me...I mentioned chickens, dogs AND cats in that one
Regular IC is practically impossible to sustain for any length of time (few minutes at most) before he loses the E... the E is VERY fragile... if I squeeze or move the wrong way, it's gone. Hope that situation improves over time..
I feel your pain on this one my dear. I have the same exact thing. If H does obtain penetration its only from the back and if I move slightly he looses it. Its very frustrating
I think the games are rigged. Doesn't anyone else find it rather amazing that every year it goes all the way to 7 games? Think of all the money that wouldn't be made if it only went 4 or 5 games...
GGB, who never really understood the fascination with professional sports. It's only about the money.
Then again, if you want to see how horny you and MrHP can get by waiting 4 weeks...