Virtually all we do is oral (me on him) and manual (him on me or me on me). Regular IC is practically impossible to sustain for any length of time (few minutes at most) before he loses the E... the E is VERY fragile... if I squeeze or move the wrong way, it's gone. Hope that situation improves over time... So... count your blessings.

I did have a bf years ago who had a hard time coming from IC-- there just wasn't enough rough friction. He preferred HJ-- hard rubbing right on the head. I guess MB set this up. I suppose there are some guys in the "pressure" school and some of the "friction" school... Info from guys would be helpful (if you can think about this while at work! )