Last night when I got to bed, H was very affectionate with me. I had asked him the night before last to make sure that the affection in our lives wasn't a one way street from me to him. He said he'd work on it. I know that if he gets distracted, I am the first thing to fall off his radar screen. And a new baby is a BIG distraction. But once I remind him, he steps up to the plate. I just hate having to give frequent reminders to pay attention to me!!!
Ahem. Anyway, so I got into bed and he was caressing me, etc, and I sensed that he was getting turned on. He never said anything re: ML but I can tell the difference between sexual and nonsexual touching, regardless of where the touch occurs. I asked if he was getting anxious to get the green light for ML and he replied that he had just started to feel antsy the last 3 days. We went to sleep wrapped up in each other, so nice.
So the baby starts spitting up and choking at about 4:00 a.m. and we both jumped up and got her taken care of. When we laid down again, H reached over and began stroking my leg. Then he moved on to the squeezy bits! We did not ML, we were both too afraid, but we had manual sex. Now, to some, this is no big deal but you have to understand that the last time I gave my H a hj was probably 1996. Or maybe before that, I really can't remember.
He dislikes them for various reasons. The fact that he was allowing himself to lay there and have me do this to him spoke volumes to me about how horny he was. Oh and this was one erection that I did not have to induce..I just about cheered at that.
I am still so surprised that this happened! I'm sure to the HD fellas it seems like no biggie, eh. I am proud of him for letting me into his world even if it is only once every 8-9 yrs, LOL.
I think I'm going to have a hard time waiting until 4 weeks has elapsed but I do intend to do it. Wish me luck!
