Chris, Your Pissy Post made me smile more than anything else.
My H is not confident that I'm not going anywhere because of my profession, of that I can assure you. I made more money than him when I quit my job 5 years ago as well as having a company car and expense account. We took a huge pay cut for me to stay home and raise our kids (and had to go out and buy a car). Though I would certainly not be able to go back at that level (after being out of the work force for so many yrs) I really don't worry about being able to land a good job and support my kids, should the need arise. Now, don't JINX me that I might need to prove this statement right, wouldja!!
He doesn't worry about it because he thinks that once people love each other that they just always DO and there is nothing you need to do to cultivate that love and devotion. Perhaps that is how it works for him but not for me. I do believe he is starting to realize that this is not how it works, but realizing it and doing something about it are two different things.
Now, onto you. Why don't you just wait to make your big kahuna moves after the 4th snooze? If you know that's how she operates, then get on that bandwagon why don'tcha! Or are you saying that it's a no go, no matter how many snoozes have elapsed?
