I also think that he needs to grow up regarding his behavior, but right this minute, they BOTH have a whole lot on their respective plates, both are stressed, and if HP can defuse the situation with a small effort, then they are better off for now.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.