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Not only did he not notice or care that I attempted to look nice yesterday but he literally shunned any attempt by me to get physically close to him last night.






IMO your H is acting very Mr. Wilson-like. He knows that you really need him now, so he is free to be jerky with no consequences. I'm not saying this is conscious jerkiness, but it still sux.

I think you should bundle up baby and her sisters, put on your sexy jeans and go out in the world in search of positive stranger reinforcement. I'm sure you will find at least one kind soul who will say "That can't be your baby! You look way too good to have given birth so recently."


"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver