Quote: Is there a way to ask for what you want that leaves both partners feeling satisfied with the results?
No, never... at least not in my experience. Just the fact that you have to ask is going to annoy you. Then, if your spouse doesn't do what you ask, THAT will annoy you. Then, in the future, when they do what you asked for, you'll always be wondering if it's just because they want to shut you up or not.
