Ya know HP, I don't know why you are drawn to LD men but I do believe that you have the H you do for a reason-- in some way, he provides a balance for you. The trick is to appreciate those traits in him even when those very things drive you crazy!
I remember AtlDave posting once about his aloof, b!tchy wife and then recognizing and thanking her for her stability.
I am recognizing these personality differences in my own marriage and how they relate to our sex life( have just posted something about this). The funny thing is, our kids don't really represent a "blend" of the two of us which would have been a nice thing...my D is more like H and my S is more like me. It will be interesting to see whom they choose for partners when the time comes.
