Quote: But why then, if I bring up the subject of sex once in two weeks or even once a month, does she claim that sex is "all I ever think of"?
She doesn't realize the amount of time that has passed, I suppose because sex isn't even in the top 10 of her weekly priorities. When I've mentioned the # of days since sex, my W has replied with, "nooo it's only been a week" and "I had no idea." The concept of time is lost. To use an analogy, I equate this way of thinking with trying to remember when certain "non-memorable events" happened in the past year (when were you last sick? when were you last in the hospital? when were you last in a car accident?). Can you remember these things unless you've marked them on a calendar or unless they've happened in the past week or two?
Unfortunately for us HDs, as I wrote, sex isn't a priority for LD people. I'm trying to find "the way" to get my W to raise its priority. It's been a while since I had a talk with her about it.
