Quote: What if you want sex 1x per day and your partner wants it 3x? What would you do if you honestly thought there was no physical way you could provide what your spouse wanted, let alone the emotional motivation?
Okay. I am imagining that I have a lover so HD that he wants it 3x a day every day. What would I do?
Maybe I would want to have sex 3x a day, if I had a lover who wanted sex 3x a day. I can't think of a single instance in my life when I was approached by an aroused man with whom I was involved sexually that didn't lead to me being turned on. Has this ever happened to you HP? Can you imagine any circumstances under which you wouldn't be turned on if your H approached you fully aroused in an assertive manner? I'm sure there would be circumstances under which you would choose to not have sex with him even though were turned on, but would you be able to keep yourself from being turned on? Maybe sex is like fudge and you can really get sick of it if you have too much, but maybe sex is like chinese food and an hour later you can eat again.
I think I could develop the habit of 3x a day as long as it was understood that I wouldn't have the desire to initiate that often. I would just have to make the time. Most days I watch a little TV 3x a day. About 15 min. of news in the morning, a half hour gardening show at lunch and maybe an hour of whatever the kids are watching in the evening. If my H wanted sex 3x a day, I would happily give up my TV time for our new hobby .
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