JJ, You nailed what I was trying to get at. What if you want sex 1x per day and your partner wants it 3x? What would you do if you honestly thought there was no physical way you could provide what your spouse wanted, let alone the emotional motivation?
Btw, Hairy, you smart aleck, I am not going to the dark side. Far from it, my man! These are just musings from me, in my time of convalescence..
Chris, yes I am very good to my H. And actually my expectations are very, very loose. I tell him all the time that he doesn't have to always bathe the kids and he says No no I want to do it. I always ask, not demand. And helping around the house would be me asking him approx once a month to do something. I am a very easygoing person but what I DO want, I don't want to have to ask for it twice. I relate all this not to make myself sound like a shrew but to illustrate that an HD wife like myself probably sounds pretty great but the reality might be different. Would frequent sex be enough to make up for everything else? Who knows.
