Quote: How would an HD person react to being under PRESSURE to provide more sex?
Would you be okay with it?
Now that I am starting to get a glimpse of what it might be like to have a HD husband, I think the question should be "Would a HD person ever experience PRESSURE from an even more HD person's sexual demands?". I think a person who has a high sex drive and has had the experience of being in a relationship with someone significantly more LD would be unlikely to experience PRESSURE unless they were completely lacking in introspection or empathy. Here comes the analogy. My sister is a musician and in the past often had to be a musician/waitress in order to support herself. She would never leave a lousy tip in a restaurant even if she got rather poor service because she knows all the problems associated with waiting tables and has empathy with the waitperson's situation. She might even say something to the waitpersn like "It really sux when they give you too many tables, doesn't it?".
If I were ever in a relationship with someone more HD than me I would do everything possible to bridge the chasm with empathy, humor and common sense. For instance, if I was in a relationship with a man whose drive was 2x a day, I would probably plan on 1x daily routine sex that would take off the edge for him. Even if a man had a higher frequency drive than me there would still probably be varieties of sexual activity for which I was higher drive than him, so there would still be opportunities for trading sex for sex. For example, if he was willing to act out some fantasy for me on Saturday night, I would be happy to give him head 3x on Sunday even though I might only want to orgasm once. Also, in a HD/HD relationship since both parties would know that orgasm was at most maybe 48 hours away (as opposed to 3 wks. or 7 yrs. ) a lot of the PRESSURE and PAIN could be experienced as a pleasurable opportunity to tease or be teased with few long term relationship repercussions. IMO the ability to tease and be teased sexually is probably the true sign of healthy balance in a sexual relationship.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
) a lot of the PRESSURE and PAIN could be experienced as a pleasurable opportunity to tease or be teased with few long term relationship repercussions. IMO the ability to tease and be teased sexually is probably the true sign of healthy balance in a sexual relationship. 
